Birthday Countdown Fun

Train cupcake treat Ethan brought to school for his 4th Bday.

I'm big on planning fun stuff for the kids birthdays.  Nothing terribly expensive and elaborate, but definitely creative.   This year I have plans on doing a combined family party with the them of Tutus and ChooChoos. Tutus for little Miss Zoey who will be 2 years old and ChooChoos (for the 3rd year in a row) for Ethan who will be 5.  I think it sounds wonderfully fun.  We'll just have to see in a month or 2 what comes of that idea.  ;)

Zoey sporting the tutu I made her for her 1st bday

Any who, I ran across an idea that is too brilliant not to share (and quite frankly help me remember).  A paper chain birthday countdown.  So easy but so cool!  Kids are totally visual, so this is perfect.  On the outside of the paper link write how many days until their birthday.  On the inside of the link have a family member write a memory they want to share the the birthday child. Each day the birthday child gets to take another link off and read the message.  I love sharing and keeping memories, so I am in love with idea.  I think I would want to save the links in some sort of book to be able to review years down the road.  

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Eating out with the Kids the Affordable Way

(Mother Son "Knight" at Chickfila)

There is a good chance I enjoy eating out a little too much.  It's a bad habit we picked up when Ethan was first born.  We just couldn't figure out how to handle a new baby and everything else that life dished out and still find time to make dinner.  I like to think I have gotten WAY better at this, but still enjoy a lazy evening out.  Like everything else in life, it is my mission to find the most affordable way to eat out  :)

Here are some of my Mommy Tricks and Tips:

*Avoid ordering a kids meal that they are going to eat 2 bites of and be done (read on for more)


*Pack your own juice box and fruit cup.  There is no point in paying $1 or more for each


*When you order your side and entree keep the kids in mind.  Order something that you can share with them.


*Stash some Crystal Light packets in your purse and just order water.


*No sugar added Nesquik powder is HUGE in our house.  Put some in your formula storage container and add to your child's milk. (does not save money, but does save some bouncing off the walls from the sugary stuff)  ;)


*Go for the bigger kid's meal and split with the 2 kids.  If the younger child is old enough to realize they aren't getting a toy you can order an extra toy and still be better off than ordering 2 meals. (I do this at McDonald's for my 4 year old and 18 month old)


*Know when kids eat free and take advantage of it! You might be surprised of all the places that offer kids eat free night.  Start making a master list of your local restaurants.  Check their website, give them a call, or just ask the next time you are in to verify the details of each restaurant's promo details.


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Our Favorite Free/Cheap Kid Outings

I would say we are quickly approaching the hazy, lazy days of summer (if they aren't already here), and with that comes the need to do something......ANYTHING with the kids to keep them busy and happy.  Here is our go to list of local (Dayton, OH) area activities for the kiddos.

Carriage Hill-money for candy

indoor play area great for super hot days (or rainy days.  It has wooden blocks, a Little House on the the Prarie style school house and kitchen to play in.  The kids LOVE it.


candy store Lots of candy to choose from for pennies (REALLY).  I usually bring a quarter or so and that gets several pieces for the kids and me, but if you are having a sweet tooth bring a $1 and get lots of candy.


animals You can't feed or really touch the animals, but you can get really close and get some amazing pictures.  The kids LOVE that the chickens just walk around the farm free and will walk right up to you.


picnic area outside the candy store there is a nice area with picnic tables.


fishing I can't say that I have ever partaken in this great sport and Ethan has enjoyed hanging out with Daddy and Papaw and catching some sea weed. :)


hiking There is paths around the pond as well as deeper into the woods.  We have always taken a stroller and done just fine as long as the ground isn't too wet.

Wegerzyn Garden-free

mini splash pad bring the water clothes and let the kids run through the water to cool off


sound garden instruments to play as you walk on a path through a almost maze like area  of bushes. 


water the plants simple yes, but the kids have a blast pumping the water and looking for the "water me" signs


sand box nice shaded area with different heights of sandboxes to meet the needs of kids of all ages

School Playgrounds-free

During the summer when school is out it is fun to pick different public schools and check out their play equipment.  

Tom Cloud Splash Pad-free

I know the new water park in Huber is amazing, but the Splash Pad is free!!! :)  Bring snacks and waters toys (buckets and such) and the kids will have a blast.

Air Force Museum-free (IMAX shows and simulator cost)

Bring a stroller There is a lot of walking so you will want a back up plan. ;)


Picnic area  There is a cafe inside as well as nice places outside for a picnic


Kid's Educational room  Ethan's favorite place!  Lots of fun stuff for kids to do.  We could probably just send the morning in this one little room


Planes to go through or sit in ask a volunteer about where these special planes are because they are always a highlight

Library-free

Crafts Our local library has a craft day once a week during the summer check with your local library for details.


Story time books, songs, sometimes crafts.  Call your local library for details


Play area our local library has puppets, puzzles, and such to play with that Ethan loves.  


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Enjoying Restaurants with Children

What is intended to be a relaxing event can quickly turn ugly when dealing with unpredictable children emotions. Here's my tips to enjoy your children and food the next time you head to a restaurant.

1. PREPARE~If an online version of the menu is available, take a look at it before you go so you don't have to waste time deciding when you arrive at the restaurant.

2. TIME IT~ Going off pick will give you a less hectic atmosphere which has a tendency to distract and upset children and raise parents' blood pressure.

3. CHOOSE WISELY~ Some locations are better than others to take children to. Family oriented locations are going to be your best bet.
Bob Evans~ great kid's menu that includes pictures for you lil one to easily choose their meal.
Steak n Shake~ kid friendly and have free kid's meals on the weekend.
Fazoli's~ (Ethan's favorite!) Family style atmosphere and menu. $1.99 kid's meal Tuesday evening
ChickFila~ We love the infant toys in the kid's meals (usually a small board book perfect for the diaper bag) Customer service is outstanding. Love the principles that this company runs on! (and the food is super yummy too!)
Skyline~ Kids night Wednesdays with free kids meals (includes drink and dessert) and craft.

4. ENTERTAIN~ Bring snacks (cheerios, gold fish, raisins, etc) to entertain young children while you wait for food and/or special puzzle books that only come out at restaurants. (to keep them new, exciting, and engaging)

5. GET OUT~ When your food arrives, request your check. So you aren't stuck waiting for the bill when the kids are falling apart.


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Tricks for Potty Training Boys

So I've only potty trained a boy. I have not had the opportunity to come up with fun lessons related to potty training girls. This will change over the next few years though. ;) Of course, there are many steps for potty training success that you can read in any parenting magazine but these are my personal tips from life experience. :)

1. Make going potty it's own reward~ Yes, it's possible!
~ Let your son pick out a food coloring color. Put a couple drops in the toilet. When he tinkles the color will grow and spread. Watch how proud he is of what he did.
~ Same idea, but with bubbles. Squeeze a little bit of cheap soap in the toilet. When he tinkles he will make bubbles. Now that's exciting!

2. Give 'em a boost!
~Public bathrooms present many challenges, one being the height of the toilet. If he is just a little short to stand at the toilet; have him stand on your feet. Way easier than holding him. And he will be able to relax better than be dangled over the toilet.

3. Up for boys, down for Mommy!
~Priceless lesson. Mommies beware. ALWAYS check the seat before you sit down or you just may sit on a tinkle seat. Or fall in for that matter. ;)

4. Hand Sanitizer
~ It takes more effort than a aerobic class to hold a child up to public sinks to wash their hands. (never mind trying to keep their clothes dry) Hand sanitizer will be your life saver!

5. Keep clothes simple
~No overalls
~Limit buttons, snaps, and zippers on pants. There are plenty of cute elastic options, even in larger sizes.
~Don't let your child's clothes be the reason they don't make it.
~This will encourage independents as well as setting your child up for success.


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Surviving the Stores with Kids

I'll be honest, the thought of shopping with my kids use to send me into minor anxiety attacks. It is SO hard to focus on the safety and happiness of your kids while trying to decide which cereal is going to be the best deal this week. Here is what I have come up with to make shopping with kids a little more bearable and dare I say enjoyable.

1. Entertainment- Allow your child to bring one small toy to keep them busy.~ For younger children this should be a item that can be attached to the cart, so you don't have to keep picking it up.~A special set of toys that get rotated for shopping trips will make the toys more fun. ~They are less likely to ask you to buy something if they already have something.
2. Comfort- Your child will be able to tolerate you shopping trip longer if they are more comfortable.~If you only need a few things maybe the stroller would be more comfortable than the cart.~ Cart covers that be purchased at at retailers like Target and Walmart can make carts more comfortable, protect from germs and usually have toys attached.
~A blanket can also be used in a cart to add padding and comfort.

3. Snacks!
~I have a formula holder with separate compartments that I bought from BabiesRUs that I keep a variety of different snacks for the kids. (Goldfish crackers, raisins, puffs, cheerios, etc) Distracts their focus momentarily. Which is also nice at the check out counter. ;) "Here I already have a snack for you."

4. Picture Grocery List- Did you know that a lot of store websites allow you to print items from their ad that include a picture? Just click on the items you want and print your list. ~Your kids will have fun hunting for the items on their list

5. Shopping Passport- Make a little book that looks similar to a passpart.
~For each place you go (Walmart, Kroger, Post Office, Bank, etc) Write where you went on each page with the date.~Ask an associate to make a special mark in the book for your child on the page (cashier or door greeter, someone you interact with). Many associates may think this is strange, but others will have a great time with it with stickers or little drawings. ~This will give your child a small reward for making it through the trip that costs nothing.

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Once Upon a Child $1 Sale!!!

This is one of my favorite times to get clothes for the kids! Once Upon a Child locations in the Dayton area have all their clearance clothes and toys for $1. Can you beat that?!

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Advice that Only a Mom Could Give

I was asked at a baby shower if I have a blog for all my Mommy tips. My response was, “well kind of. I have a blog, but don’t seem to find time to post anymore.” :) So this post is dedicated to my co-worker’s daughter, Mandy. I hope you find some of these tips helpful and maybe even make your life a little easier. Congrats and good luck!

1. Don’t take lactation consults too serious. (They do this enough themselves.) Your little one knows what the “good stuff” is, so if you give him a bottle even once a day he is not going to “get confused.” (n fact we did this is preparation for me going back to work. When it was time for me to work, Zoey had nothing to do with the bottle. :)

2. How to ward off post-partum depression.

1. Eat snacks. Have easy foods on hand that you can eat with little prep. (Fruit cup, yogurt, pretzels, cheese cubes, sandwich materials, etc)

2. Takes naps. -It’s easy to want to clean or play on the computer, but taking a nap REALLY helps

3. Take a shower every day. No, really. -Some days it is hard to find time for a simple shower, but fresh clothes and a shower really does wonder for the mood.

4. Take small outings. –I’m talking super simple. Just a ride in the car to soak up some sun (if there’s any to be found) and get fresh air.

3. Babies don’t know about designer labels. Save money now and by 2^nd hand clothes. Babies don’t care if they are wearing Gap or Walmart.

4. Use the date stamp on your camera. Having the date right on the picture is priceless when looking back at pictures.

5. Skip stage one food. Stage one and stage two baby foods are the same foods. The stage two food just comes in a container twice as big and is often the same price as stage one food. Yes, some will get throw away at first, but you will get your monies worth.

6. Skip the kid’s meal. There is no point paying for an extra meal for your little one for awhile after they start eating table food. They just don’t eat that much and there is no point and buying a $4 meal for 3 bites of food. Bring a fruit cup, juice box, and crackers when eating out and just share your meat from your meal.

7. Always have an umbrella stroller in the car. You never know when it will come in handy. This will free your hands to do other things, such as banking.

8. Avoid over scheduling. Everyone will be excited to see your little one, but too much visiting will be more than you and baby can handle. It is perfectly okay to say things like, “Today is not good, Afternoons work best for us, or We are really not up for visitors.”

9. Always have your camera handy. Keep it in your purse when you go out and leave it on and nearby counter when at home. You will catch the best moments when you have your camera in sight and in mind.

10. Socks make great teethers. Certainly there are other items that work too, but in a pinch a clean pair of socks stashed in the diaper bag makes the perfect teething relief for your little one. (And when table food is introduced baby carrots are nice for your little one to chew on.)

So 10 is a nice amount to end with. Plus, if I don’t go back to sleep it will be time for another feeding. ;) If I think of other great tips I will add them. :)

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